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Divorce & Bankruptcy go Hand in Hand?

Money problems in a marriage can lead to divorce.

Because many people going through a divorce are also under a lot of financial stress, they often think about the possibility of bankruptcy as a way to keep everything under control. Stress arises from having to pay lawyer and court costs and most importantly, having to cover the expenses of two households rather than just one.

Unfortunately, divorce and bankruptcy

seem to go hand-in-hand for some people.

However, bankruptcy isn’t always the best idea, but if you decide to take that road, you won’t be alone. Bankruptcy filings have increased considerably over the last several years.

If you’re considering filing for bankruptcy along with your divorce, the way you word your divorce settlement can have a lot to do with how the bankruptcy affects your divorce – and vice versa.

How does bankruptcy and divorce fit together? Are you aware that there are different kinds of bankruptcy? The following are the way the issues settle out:

  • The Automatic Stay – Stops all efforts to enforce the collection of debt.
  • Discharge – Is your debt dischargeable? Can you get rid of it?
  • Paying support – Obligations from your divorce to pay support, including spousal and child, is not dischargeable in bankruptcy.
  • Property Settlement – The obligation of a property settlement may or may not be discharged, depending on the circumstances. The debtor must prove that he or she cannot pay the debt and still take care of themselves and their dependents – or that discharging the debt would result in a benefit to the debtor that outweighs the harm that would be caused to the former spouse by non-payment.

Debts that do not get discharged include:

  • Spousal and child support
  • Some obligations for a property settlement
  • Student loans
  • Debts arising from fraud or theft
  • Criminal restitution

If your spouse starts bankruptcy proceedings before your divorce is finalized, you might want to think about filing jointly, especially if most of your debt obligations are in both your names. It is important to note that a joint bankruptcy filing is typically not available to divorced couples, even if much of their debts are held jointly.

The law surrounding divorce and bankruptcy is complicated and each case is different. Whether you need assistance with a divorce or custody dispute, or have fallen on hard times financially and need to file bankruptcy, the family law offices of Holstrom, Block & Parke can help.

We will sit down and discuss your needs and goals with you and then aggressively represent you in and out of court to achieve the best possible outcome. Contact us at one of our conveniently located offices in Orange, Riverside or San Bernardino Counties.

I Want a Family

When you envision parenthood, do you think about little footsteps running around your house? How about crayon drawings hanging on your refrigerator door?

Adoption has helped make the dreams of parenthood come true for countless families in the United States.

But, how do you start? The adoption process has many steps, which may seem a little daunting at first. The following is a step-by-step description on how the process works:

  1. After months or years with infertility issues, determine if adoption is for you.
  2. Make sure you decide on an adoption plan – do you want a relationship with the birth parents or do you want to find a child through an agency?
  3. Choose an adoption professional, such as an experienced family law attorney, to guide you through the process.
  4. Complete an adoption home study, which proves you are ready to adopt a child and provide a safe environment for him or her.
  5. Complete an adoptive parent profile, which describes who you are, why you want to be a parent, the plans for your child, and photos of you and your family.
  6. Find a match – through an agency’s matching service or through your own adoption advertising.
  7. Participate in pre-placement contact – helps the adoptive couple and the prospective birth parents get to know each other before the birth of the baby to ensure their match is a good fit for both parties.
  8. Wherever the birth mother lives, travel to her for the big arrival.
  9. ICPC – Interstate compact on the placement of children requirements – you will need to remain in the state where the child was born until all clearances are finalized; this can last from a few days to a few weeks.
  10. Complete post-placement services – ensures the family and child are adjusting well to one another.
  11. Final hearing – a judge’s final review of the adoption, ensuring everything is complete.

Whether you are considering placing a child for adoption, or building your family through adoption, it is important to have an experienced Family Law attorney guide you through the complicated and complex process.

The Family Law offices of Holstrom, Block & Parke provides assistance, legal advice and representation to adoptive parents in a professional caring and supportive manner. Just remember – adoption is the best gift any person can give to a child in need of a permanent family. Get in contact with our firm today!

Visit us today in one of our offices located in Riverside, San Bernardino, and Orange Counties.

Can I Get My Ex Spouse To Pay For My Attorney Fees?

The cost of hiring an attorney in a divorce case can be very expensive, depending on the circumstances and complexities surrounding your situation.

Sometimes, the court will order one party to pay a portion of the attorney fees incurred by the other party, especially if one party earns more than the other; however, the family court will almost never order one spouse to pay all of the other spouse’s fees.

What can you do when you need to hire a divorce attorney but cannot afford the retainer because your spouse earns all the family income and holds the purse strings?

The problem of finding the money to retain an attorney is commonly a source of great anxiety for divorcing couples. So, how do you get an attorney to help you get through this process? Questions arise, including:

  • Can you use the funds from your joint bank accounts?
  • Can you use your joint credit card?
  • Do you need to borrow the money from a family member or friend?
  • Should your soon-to-be ex-spouse pay or contribute towards your attorney fees?

Should your spouse pay for attorney fees and costs? The answer to this question is, “it depends on the facts in your case.”

According to the California Family Code Section 2030, the court is “empowered to order the payment of fees and costs as between the parties, based on their relative circumstances (i.e. respective incomes and needs and abilities to pay) in order to ensure a parity of legal representation in the action.”

In addition, Family Code Section 1100 allows you to access joint funds before family law proceedings are actually filed. It provides that,“either spouse has the right to management and control of the community personal property.”

When a joint bank account exists, you might be wise to use some of those funds to hire your attorney before your spouse empties the account. However, it is not wise for you to take all the joint funds. Don’t appear greedy in front of the family court judge.

If you have questions regarding possible attorney fee awards in your divorce case, please contact the family law offices of Holstrom, Sissung, Marks & Anderson for the help you need. We are located in Riverside, Orange, and San Bernardino Counties.

Divorce & Inheritance

Regardless of your current situation, a divorce can be emotionally draining, financially taxing and stressful for everyone involved.

Whether you’re on the receiving end or the giving end of an inheritance, divorce can throw a curve ball into your plans for the money. Inheritance rights can become complicated during a divorce – your spouse may be able to claim a part of your inheritance, as part of the property settlement agreement. This is where it is highly recommended to have the an experienced divorce attorney give you a clear understanding of what monies are considered marital property and should be included during the settlement agreement.

If you have received an inheritance while married, you run the risk of turning your inheritance into community property if you commingle the inherited funds or property. Commingling is the act of mixing the funds belonging to one party with those of another party. For example, placing inheritance funds into a joint account will commingle the inheritance – thus, making it marital property.

However, on the other hand, if you receive an inheritance while you’re married, it’s yours – as long as you keep it separate from marital assets.

So, if you divorce down the road and your inheritance remains separate property, the court won’t order you to give a portion to your spouse as long as you take some precautions:

  • Consult with an attorney to draw up a post nuptial agreement, for extra protection, stating that your spouse has no interest in your inheritance in the event of a divorce – make sure he or she signs it.
  • Don’t do anything with your inheritance that might make it appear that you intended to share it with your spouse. The court may consider it marital property in that case.
  • If you decide to leave your married child an inheritance, it is wise to transfer your bequest to her through a trust rather than a last will and testament.

To learn more about how you can protect your assets whether you are married or about to be, or thinking of divorce there are still options available for you to safe guard your finances, click here.

Another matter to keep in mind is that most people who are marrying do not often think about protecting themselves from their future spouses. After all, marriage is supposed to be forever. However, in California and the rest of the country, about half of first marriages end in divorce.

Dissolving a marriage brings about financial conflicts, including inheritance rights. Although this may be a very difficult time in your life, it is important to understand that an experienced family divorce lawyer can make a real difference in not only guiding you through the legal process, but also helping you secure what you deserve.

Contact the family law offices of Holstrom, Block & Parke with convenient offices in Riverside, Orange and San Bernardino Counties. We will answer your questions and address your concerns with the importance they deserve.

Estate Planning- Don't Forget Your Puppy!

The number of households in America owning pets is at a record high – 68 percent. Many people think of their pets as family members and want to make sure they are well provided for should something happen to them.

More and more people are making provisions in their wills to provide for these animals after they are gone. In order to ensure that your pet is cared for as you intend, it’s important to set up a pet trust – an arrangement that most states permit. An attorney experienced in probate and estate planning litigation can help you ensure that your pet is protected and cared for after your gone.

While some people leave thousands of dollars for the care of a pet, most pet owners allocate only enough to cover necessities like food and veterinary care. Did you know that from 2010 to 2012, the percentage of dog owners making such arrangements rose from 5% to 9%?

Recognizing the desire of Californians to have a means to care for their companion animals after death, California legislature enacted Probate Code Section 15212, the Pet Trust Law. According to the law, “A person can create a trust for the care of a designated domestic or pet animal for the life of the animal. The duration will only be for the life of the pet, even if the trust instrument contemplates a longer duration.”

In a properly drafted Pet Trust a pet owner can:

  • Name the pet(s) as the beneficiary of a Will or Trust
  • Appoint a caretaker for the pet and a trustee who will manage the money for the pet
  • Appoint someone to enforce the trust to ensure that the trust’s terms are carried out as the owner desired

The trustee pays the pet’s bills and oversees the performance of its caretaker; however, trustees can double as caretakers. Be sure those you appoint want to perform their duties and name a successor just in case.

Pet trusts can take effect either after you die or while you’re alive. The latter provides for care of the pet in the event you suffer an accident or illness that leaves you unable to take care of your animal.

When you can no longer take care of your pet for any reason during your life or after your death, promises by family or friends may be forgotten or broken. It is truly important to create a legally enforceable plan to protect your beloved pet.

If you have questions regarding a Pet Trust or any other type of Estate Planning, contact the Family Law offices of Holstrom, Block & Parke for the answers and options you need.

We have offices in Riverside, San Bernardino, and Orange Counties for your convenience.

About Dayn Holstrom

Dayn Holstrom is a hard working, compassionate problem solver who welcomes the opportunity to serve you in any way he can. His maximum availability to your questions and concerns begins with your free initial consultation. He is well-seasoned in all matters related to family law and a skilled negotiator and litigator.

What are Preliminary Financial Disclosures?

California is a community property state when it comes to divorce.Community property includes everything acquired during the marriage, such as assets, liabilities and pensions.

An important required step in the divorce process is preparing and exchanging preliminary financial disclosures. A judge will not grant a divorce without this information.

California law requires each party to fill out preliminary financial disclosure form FL-150, Income & Expense Declaration, and FL-142, Schedule of Assets and Debts which identifies all separate property and community property.

These forms are important because they help the parties and the court to identify the entire community estate. By preparing a preliminary disclosure, you disclose your financial situation – what you owed and owned with your spouse. Even though they may look easy to fill out, they are filled with legal complexities.

What happens if you or your spouse intentionally refuses to list all assets and debts? Negligent omissions of assets and debts, including separate property, can lead to devastating results for both parties. For example, you can lose out on your share of a community asset.

Never assume that any asset in your name alone, regardless of when it was acquired, is your own separate property.

Another consequence of not disclosing all assets and/or debts is possible court punishment to the guilty party.

According to California Family Code Section 2100(a), (b), (c) and 2120(a),“California law recognizes the vital importance of full and accurate disclosure of assets, liabilities, and financial circumstances at the early stages of a marital action in order to ensure a proper division of the community estate and fair and sufficient child and spousal support awards”.

If you would like assistance in completing your Preliminary Declaration of Disclosure forms or with any family law issue, please contact the family law offices of Holstrom, Sissung, Marks & Anderson, located in Riverside, Orange and San Bernardino Counties.

We are committed to providing you with the information you need to make informed decisions about your divorce and your family needs. We are here to protect you.

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