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Wills And Trusts 101-Part 1 Of 2

WILLS AND TRUSTS 101—Part 1 Of 2

Written by Scott Feig, Esq.

Very often we hear these terms used together—Wills and Trusts. However, they are not the same thing and, in many instances, serve different functions. It’s likely that many of us have seen those infamous scenes on T.V. programs, or movies, where the lawyer reads the Last Will and Testament of the deceased uncle to the surviving members of the family—each member on the edge of his/her seat wondering whether they were left the uncle’s millions. And, as for a trust, it’s likely that many of us think of wealthy adult children receiving money from a trust—often called trust babies. But, both of these images limit really how important it is for the every-day person to have some type of will or trust in place.

It is likely that you may be reading this because you, like so many of us, know that having some type of document directing how our assets are to be given away at death, as well as who will take care of our children at our death, is crucial. And, knowing we have these documents in place helps us sleep better at night. To this end, this week, which is Part 1 of 2, we will start with understanding will basics.

What’s probably the most important issue for many of us is that a well-drafted will tells our survivors who will be the guardian of our children. For example, if a single person with children dies without a will, his/her survivors must file papers with the court to determine who will be the guardian of the surviving children. This can be a long and expensive process and may not necessarily carry out the deceased person’s unwritten wishes. A well-drafted will is analogous to the adage—an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.

Please note that it cannot be stressed enough how important it is to seek guidance from an attorney regarding will formation. In fact, a well-drafted will distributes our property to the survivors we choose—like making sure your ‘69 Camaro goes to your brother, your coin collection goes to your son, and your ‘75 Thurman Munson baseball card goes to your best friend from childhood. However, without a will, it is unlikely that the ‘gifts’ will be made. In fact, in California, if you die without a will, then State law, not you, chooses how all of your property will be given away at your death. For example, if a married person, with no children, but surviving parents, dies without a will, then half of his/her property will go to his surviving wife, and the other half will go to his surviving parents. That’s it. So the car he wanted to give to his brother, and the baseball card collection he wanted to give to his best friend, may never happen.

So, why an attorney? And not a pre-printed form from a stationary store or an online form from a website that advertises wills? Like all areas of law, there are many concerns involving technicalities being carried out correctly so the will is valid when a person dies. An invalid will is the same as dying without a will. And, at times, portions of a will may be invalid without the proper legal guidance. For example, let’s look at a common scenario: A person has a valid will drafted where, among other things, leaves his expensive coin collection to his oldest brother. A few years later, he and his oldest brother have a falling out. So, this person takes a pen and crosses out his oldest brother’s name in his will and writes in his youngest brother’s name—believing that he cancelled the ‘gift’ to his oldest brother and made a ‘gift’ of this coin collection to his youngest brother. Are you ready for this? Neither the oldest brother nor the youngest brother gets the coin collection via the will. The law regarding crossing out on a will is complicated. And, often, when a person takes his/her own pen to a drafted will, problems arise. Thus, attorney guidance regarding will drafting, and even changes to the will, is highly recommended. In case you are curious, the coin collection would be distributed as if the person died without a will. So, if the man is survived by parents only, then the entire coin collection will go to his parents. This is quite a dilemma now for the parents if they have to choose to whom the coin collection should be given.

Please note that the above information was kept in simplest form to help give you a primer of a situation that is important to many people’s piece of mind. As many areas of law, the complexity is understood and handled well by an attorney. Thus, it’s helpful to know that an experienced attorney is a phone call, or email, away to help provide guidance.

About Dayn Holstrom

Dayn Holstrom is a hard working, compassionate problem solver who welcomes the opportunity to serve you in any way he can. His maximum availability to your questions and concerns begins with your free initial consultation. He is well-seasoned in all matters related to family law and a skilled negotiator and litigator.

What To Do If You Are Served With A Restraining Order

The purpose of a domestic violence restraining order is to prevent future acts of abuse. This includes verbal abuse, sexual assault, intentionally or recklessly causing bodily injury, and many other unwanted forms of harassment.

There is no excuse for domestic violence and this article is not condoning this behavior in any way. However, the unfortunate truth is that many individuals seek restraining orders for the wrong reasons. Whether pressured by friends of family, out of spite, or for some other reason, many individuals move forward with restraining orders knowing that they are not the victims of abuse.

Read all of the documents. If you are served with a restraining order make sure that you carefully read all of the paperwork. The court may have issued a temporary restraining order against you pending the permanent restraining order hearing. Make sure that you adhere to these court orders, no matter how much you disagree with them.

Figure out your hearing date. You will be given notice of the permanent restraining order hearing in the paperwork that you receive. Even if the court does not issue temporary restraining orders, you still need to show up to the hearing. This is your opportunity to tell the court your side of the story. It is important to remember that the court may still issue a permanent restraining order against you even if you do not show up to the hearing.

Do not take this matter lightly. Having a restraining order in place against you will be life altering. A restraining order can restrict you in many ways by ordering you to keep a certain distance away from the protected person or persons, their work, and other places. In addition, the court can order you to move out of the place where the protected person lives, and may affect your ability to come in contact with your children. Remember that a restraining order can last for multiple years.

If possible, contact an attorney. The threat of having a restraining order in place against you can be overwhelming and scary. Although results can never be guaranteed, consulting an attorney can exponentially increase your likelihood of being successful in court. An attorney can walk to you through the process, have a realistic conversation with you about your expectations, and vindicate your position in court.

Understanding Permanent Spousal Support Duration

Now, this week we move on to the discussion regarding permanent spousal support. As a reminder, last week we discussed a simplistic approach to temporary spousal support. There, the focus was which spouse had the ability to pay and which spouse had the need for money. Generally, it really is that simple. And remember, a spouse most likely will seek temporary support before the divorce is final. Hence, the word temporary.

However, permanent spousal support is a much different approach. First, a spouse obtains permanent support when the divorce is final. This is when the court enters a judgment. Second, the spouse seeking permanent spousal support must prove 14 different things to the court outlined in a California law. Just like there are criminal laws and driving laws to follow, California has an entire body of law for family law—called the California Family Code. Thus, the rules to follow when seeking permanent spousal support can be found in California Family Code Section 4320. Such factors in Section 4320 include how much each spouse does earn and can earn, the assets each spouse owns, and the length of the marriage.

But, what is most important to know here is that the court will look at all of this through its special lens—called the marital standard of living. Thus, if feasible, the supported spouse will generally obtain support to the extent so he/she can continue to live at the standard the spouses maintained during the marriage—which could be middle class, upper middle, or upper class. This martial standard of living concept is often met with resistance by the supporting spouse. And such phrases are often blurted out when a supporting spouse is confronted with paying support: “What do you mean I have to now rent an apartment so my ex-spouse, who does not work, can still live in the 5 bedroom house?” Note, though, that there is a caveat here.

And such caveat is as follows: The word permanent really is a misconception. Thus, to answer the title question: “No, you may not have to pay spousal support forever. So, to keep this simple, the length of the marriage often is a significant factor the court will consider. As such, if you were married for fewer than 10 years, it is likely that the court will set permanent support for half the length of the marriage. However, where the marriage is more than 10 years, the court will exercise its discretion, especially weighing the 14 factors mentioned above in that very important law—California Family Code Section 4320.

So, although spousal support may not be forever, many of you may be asking the follow-up question: Once the court determines the length of permanent spousal support, does that mean I must pay for that entire time? The answer: It depends. To the delight of some, and the dismay of others, permanent spousal support can be challenged after the divorce is final. Such a challenge is called either a modification or termination. A spouse may seek to modify or terminate support possibly three years, two, years, or even one year after the divorce is final. But, note that this is not an easy hurdle to overcome to make this change. The ex-spouse seeking this change must prove to the court that there has been a change in circumstances that warrant this modification or termination. Note that the spouse seeking this change cannot just re-argue again what he/she argued at court the first time. The spouse seeking this change must show certain things—such as being terminated from his/her job or resigning from a job for retirement. But, be careful not to get any bright ideas like earning less on purpose to minimize support or to obtain more support. It is likely that the court will see through such a sham.

Please know that the above was kept in the simplest form to help you understand a very complex and, as you know, highly contested issue. As many areas of law, the complexity is understood and handled well by an attorney. Thus, it’s helpful to know that an experienced family law attorney is a phone call, or email, away to help provide guidance before the marriage, at the difficult time of dissolving the marriage, and during post-judgment issues.

Potential Pitfalls of Holding Title in Joint Tenancy

We have a lot of clients who ask us “Why don’t I just put my children on my home/bank account as a joint tenant to avoid probate?” While this method may, in fact, avoid the necessity of probate, it just might have some unintended consequences that you may not have considered.

Inability to control your assets

When you add a child or another person to your bank account or home, you make them a partial owner of that property. This ownership gives them control over your home and if you decide to sell or refinance your home, that child will have to consent to and sign on the sales documents. If they cannot or will not consent, then you can find yourself in an unintended legal battle with your child to allow the sale or refinancing of the property. Similarly, placing a child on your bank account gives them access to the account and the ability to “borrow” the money in your account without your permission, prior knowledge, or consent. While most of us would like to believe that our children would never withdraw money without consulting us first and would always abide by our wishes when it comes to the management of our property, unfortunately, family circumstances change and holding title in joint tenancy with a child may open you up to these problems.

Gift Taxes

When you add your child to your home as a joint tenant or add them to your bank account, you are, according to the IRS, making a potentially taxable gift to that child. Currently, in 2015, the IRS allows a person to make an annual gift of $14,000 to any person tax free. However, if the value of your gift is greater than $14,000 per year, per person, which would include almost all transfers of real property, then the gift tax provisions of the Internal Revenue Code are triggered, a gift tax return will need to be filed and gift taxes could be incurred.

Debts and Lawsuits

If your child finds himself owing debts to creditors or the subject of a lawsuit due to an accident or other event, those creditors may be able to attach your home in order to pay those debts or judgments and can potentially force the sale of your home to pay off your child’s debts.

Divorce

Transferring your home to a married child may, if your child makes any contribution of community property funds to the mortgage, upkeep or property taxes on that home, give your child’s spouse a community property interest in the home. This community property interest would have to be resolved through a buy-out or division of property in family court in the event your child divorces.

While the establishment of a joint tenancy may be easy and quick, it may not be the best way to avoid probate of your assets. A better way to avoid probate is through the establishment of a revocable living trust. A revocable living trust allows you to maintain control over your assets during your life, avoids gift taxes, attacks by children’s creditors, and ensures that your property passes in a timely manner to your child upon your death.

In order to make an informed decision regarding the transfer of your assets either during your life or upon your death, it is important to discuss your options and the potential consequences of each with an experienced estate planning attorney before making such a transfer.

About Dayn Holstrom

Dayn Holstrom is a hard working, compassionate problem solver who welcomes the opportunity to serve you in any way he can. His maximum availability to your questions and concerns begins with your free initial consultation. He is well-seasoned in all matters related to family law and a skilled negotiator and litigator.

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