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What to Do If My Father Dies Without a Will?

All too often people put off thinking about or starting to draft a will or a trust with an attorney because they cannot bear thinking about their own mortality.

Writing a will can be one of the greatest gifts you give to your family and/or friends. By doing so, you choose who gets your assets and you can direct the ownership of those assets to the place where it will do the most good. A well-prepared will also help to alleviate stress and family strife.

What happens if you have assets that you want specific people to inherit when you die, but you die without first writing a valid will?

The decision of who inherits your property can either be made by you, or can be decided by the State of California.

In California your property will be distributed according to California’s intestacy laws. If you die leaving a husband or wife, a certain portion of your property will go to them since most probably it is community property and your spouse is entitled to at least half if not all of the community property upon your death.

In addition, your spouse is also entitled to an additional share of your separate property depending on:

  • If you die without any living siblings or parents – receive all of your separate property
  • If you die with at least one sibling and/or parent – receive half of your separate property
  • If you die with more than one living child – receive one-third of your separate property

What about your children? The property that your children receive will depend on how much your spouse received. California law says that your children will receive everything that was not received by your spouse. However, if you die without a spouse, your children receive everything.

Dividing your assets and property after your death can be a complex process, but it doesn’t have to be. Planning for your family ahead of time can avoid these complicated rules and stressful times. You deserve the peace of mind and comfort that an enforceable estate plan can bring.

If you need legal assistance creating a valid will, we invite you to contact the family law offices of Holstrom, Block & Parke to discuss your legal options. The consultation is free, and confidential, speak to one of our attorneys today.

Located in San Bernardino, Riverside and Orange Counties, our law firm focuses on matters relating to estate planning and probate administration.

About Dayn Holstrom

Dayn Holstrom is a hard working, compassionate problem solver who welcomes the opportunity to serve you in any way he can. His maximum availability to your questions and concerns begins with your free initial consultation. He is well-seasoned in all matters related to family law and a skilled negotiator and litigator.

Bright Side of Divorce

We have helped many couples in Riverside County through a divorce and some are better than others. Everyone agrees that it isn’t a fun process, but it also doesn’t need to be looked at as “bad.” Here are 6 of the best things about divorce, according to a recent post by DivorcedMom’s Lizzy Smith:

  1. It’s done. Churchill said “If you’re going through hell, keep going.” Whatever you’re struggling with in your marriage, you won’t need to deal with that (hopefully) once the divorce is finalized.
  2. The whole bed! Stretch out, lay sideways, don’t listen to snoring… not sharing a bed throughout the night can be wonderful!
  3. Purging the ugly. You know all that awful stuff your ex kept around that always annoyed yet—throw it all out! Or make him/her take it. Your space is now your own to do whatever you want with!
  4. No more fighting. As great as relationships can be, everyone fights and everyone has low moments. While the peaks and valleys are worth it… no more valleys! That’s something to celebrate.
  5. Being honest. Most people have an extremely hard time being honest about their struggles and the emotional turmoil that may be going on in their life during a rocky marriage. Once the divorce is over, many people find it much easier to be open and honest with their friends/family about what they went through. That’s when the emotional healing can start to take place.
  6. Finding passion again. Remember that excitement you once felt for your ex and how you got butterflies and felt real love and longing? You have the chance to find that again with someone else, and make it work/last this time. It’s a terrific opportunity to rejoice about.

Planning for College as a Divorced Parent

Everyone is aware of how expensive colleges/universities are in Southern California, and even in Riverside/Corona, and there are many general self-help guides for parents to help plan. What about divorced parents? A recent article by Geoff Williams in Reuters discusses a few tips for divorced parents trying to plan for their child’s education. We share his tips below.

Childcare financial planning for divorced parents is a piece of cake compared to figuring out who will pay what in college. Here are a few tips for divorced or separated parents with kids that off to college:

  1. Negotiate college during the divorce. No one forgets custody schedules, spousal support, etc. when going through a divorce. But paying for college seems to be one thing many couples forget—and it’s not a small oversight. Some universities are $200,000+ for four years. That’s not the type of money you want to fight over a few years after your divorce has calmed down. Our attorneys will remind clients to discuss paying for college, but if yours don’t (like many), be sure to bring it up.
  2. Secure a college fund. If you’ve been saving for your child’s education, you need to ensure that those funds are only used for the education—and a divorce can make anything messy. Worst-case scenario (and it has happened)… your husband/wife could actually use that money to help pay for the attorney helping him/her divorce you. So be very careful and make sure the college funds are in accounts specified and out of reach.
  3. Discuss aid forms. The FAFSA will only need to know the income/information of the parent that child spends more time with, and that person’s current spouse if applicable. If a child splits time equally, he/she should fill out the form with the parent with the lower income. This will help your child earn more federal grant/loan money!

Splitting college funds is tough and it rarely works out perfectly even. Aim for “good,” not perfect. It usually isn’t worth fighting over if it’s reasonably fair.

About Dayn Holstrom

Dayn Holstrom is a hard working, compassionate problem solver who welcomes the opportunity to serve you in any way he can. His maximum availability to your questions and concerns begins with your free initial consultation. He is well-seasoned in all matters related to family law and a skilled negotiator and litigator.

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